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Old 10-02-2004, 03:20 PM   #1
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Thumbs up A Battle Won

Some of you may know this, but others not. I'd like to raise a glass to the UK legal system today, as I have heard I will retain residence (custody) of my little girl.

The last 6 months of my life was hell, as my Brit ex applied for custody of our 3-year old daughter. The backstabbing and mud-slurring still stings, however throughout the blows my children and I persevered. It was a matter of one step forwards, two steps back....

The Court launched a full investigation, called a 'Section 7 Report', and I have today heard this report came out in my favour. My little princess will remain with her mum.

Our final hearing is listed for the 17th of March, and your prayers will be welcomed. It is a tad premature, but at least now I think the outcome will be positive.

This whole joke costed him £ 28 K
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Old 10-02-2004, 03:45 PM   #2
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Oh what WONDERFUL news!


This has really made my day!

Bokkie, you are one tough cookie and well done! Hell hath no fury such as a woman scorned huh? £28K..... may his fingers burn when he hands over the pink notes!

My prayers and thoughts will be in force on the 17th March! As its St Patrick's day that day... may he turn into a little green leprechaun!
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Old 10-02-2004, 03:49 PM   #3
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That's just amazing!! I am so chuffed your little one gets to stay with you, you must be so happy! Congratulations!
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Old 10-02-2004, 05:57 PM   #4
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Oh what WONDERFUL news!


This has really made my day!

Bokkie, you are one tough cookie and well done! Hell hath no fury such as a woman scorned huh? £28K..... may his fingers burn when he hands over the pink notes!

My prayers and thoughts will be in force on the 17th March! As its St Patrick's day that day... may he turn into a little green leprechaun!
Thanx Bokkie, and a special thanx for the support from yourself and a number of close friends. There were times when the string of sanity was held by your (collective) hands.

I have no doubt that he will continue with his verocious attacks, thus will relocate to the bundus of Wales soon.

Roll on 17 March!

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Old 10-02-2004, 05:59 PM   #5
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That's just amazing!! I am so chuffed your little one gets to stay with you, you must be so happy! Congratulations!
Thank you Pam. I have been asked to write an article about our horrendous journey and will do this in due course. At the moment I am just relieved and may God bless the Queen.
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Old 10-02-2004, 06:20 PM   #6
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Darling...

I am so happy for you, I was thinking of u today and wondering how u were doing!! I will be holding thumbs for u on the 17th March and as it is our 14th Wedding Anniversary, may it rain blessings on you and your children.....

I hope he has now learned his lesson and take him yrs to pay off this small amount he has accrued...

I hope all is good now and that you and the children will sleep well tonight......

I shall bel u soon..
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Old 10-02-2004, 06:49 PM   #7
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Darling...

I am so happy for you, I was thinking of u today and wondering how u were doing!! I will be holding thumbs for u on the 17th March and as it is our 14th Wedding Anniversary, may it rain blessings on you and your children.....

I hope he has now learned his lesson and take him yrs to pay off this small amount he has accrued...

I hope all is good now and that you and the children will sleep well tonight......

I shall bel u soon..
Thanx Cubbie! I know I've been scarce of late.
No, his mommie will take care of his legal expenses. It is a 'family affair'

Back to the topic - what worries me is the amount of damage done to family ties. The whiplash-effect on both families is tremendous, and irreparable. The poor little 3-year old does not know that yet...
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Old 10-02-2004, 07:57 PM   #8
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Thanx Cubbie! I know I've been scarce of late

no, his mommie will take care of his legal expenses. It is a 'family affair'

Back to the topic - what worries me is the amount of damage done to family ties. The whiplash-effect on both families is tremendous, and irreparable. The poor little 3-year old does not know that yet...

Very sad that when the two families are at war like that....it damages the kids to no end..but your little one will be resilient and your son also strong as u are capable of repairing the damage done to them with lots of love and support..
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Old 10-02-2004, 08:10 PM   #9
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Have just read this thread & wishing you all the very best MissQtoe. There's a song called "Things can only get better"
and I do hope this will be for you.
Best of luck.
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Old 11-02-2004, 01:26 AM   #10
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Some of you may know this, but others not. I'd like to raise a glass to the UK legal system today, as I have heard I will retain residence (custody) of my little girl.

The last 6 months of my life was hell, as my Brit ex applied for custody of our 3-year old daughter. The backstabbing and mud-slurring still stings, however throughout the blows my children and I persevered. It was a matter of one step forwards, two steps back....

The Court launched a full investigation, called a 'Section 7 Report', and I have today heard this report came out in my favour. My little princess will remain with her mum.

Our final hearing is listed for the 17th of March, and your prayers will be welcomed. It is a tad premature, but at least now I think the outcome will be positive.

This whole joke costed him £ 28 K
This is good news MissQtoe!! Good Luck for the 17th March will Keep you in my prayers.
You and your kids will be stronger and the bond that you have forged with them will stand the test of time. Sterkte

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